Wednesday, May 7, 2008

Welcome!

Dear Friends,

This new site was a long time coming...

My husband died eleven years ago. At the time, several friends suggested that I join a support group for other young widows. Well, I had a little boy to raise. Sitting in a room filled with other women who where as depressed as I was, was the absolute last place I wanted to be. What a downer! I was depressed enough! So, I never joined a support group. I never sought any counseling (although it might have been a good idea). I never talked to anyone about my feelings. I just went on with life. I didn't think I had a choice. Nick was three-and-a-half at the time and he needed his mom to be the same mom she had always been. He needed consistency. So I grieved alone and in silence.

Several years have passed and now I find myself working at an amazing women’s ministry. God brought me to Proverbs 31 Ministries and it has been one of the greatest blessings of my life. Not only do I work in an atmosphere of grace, but I get the love, support, and friendship of an amazing group of Godly women on a daily basis. I am in the safest, most encouraging environment I could ever ask for and I am thriving as a result. Each day I see God's hand at work in my life and in the lives of others. It is just too wonderful to keep it to myself! This ministry provides me with an opportunity to share these wonders.

Proverbs 31 Ministries seeks to provide God’s peace, perspective and purpose to today’s busy woman… no matter where she is in life or on her walk with Jesus. We hear from stay-at-home moms, working women, married women, divorced women, single women, and we hear from women just like me. They want to know that they are not alone. So, with much encouragement over the past few years from my friend Lysa, who said, "God doesn't comfort us to make us comfortable. He comforts us to make us comfort-able," I have launched A Widow’s Might.

"Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God. 2 Corinthians 1:3-4

Friends, I pray that A Widow’s Might becomes a place where you feel encouraged and refreshed and comforted. A place where you will meet friends – fellow travelers – as we walk this road together. We will share laughs, tears, challenges, and victories. You will hear from women who share a common bond, each one with a different perspective and a different method for handling this thing called life.

I invite you to join us. This is a sisterhood! Write to me at LeAnn@Proverbs31.org, or post a comment. Share your thoughts. Ask questions. I would love to hear from you. We are all in this together.

Sweet Blessings,
LeAnn

4 comments:

Robin said...

This is a great idea and wonderful venue for those walking in the shadow of His wing encourage others to hide neath with you! I love it!

Kitty @ Four Toms and a Mom said...

I recall my mother having the same reaction ten years ago when we took her to a widow’s group. There are really great ones out there, but she somehow thought that support group was only a place for venting tears, when she also wanted hope that there is joy after losing her husband. Now that I’ve lost my husband, I so get that, and I’m so grateful for the support around me to not only vent tears but also feel lifted and hopeful. My four active boys help me see life in a joyful way!

Sheryl said...

I love that line about God making us able to comfort. Great! I've not lost a husband. I lost my dad as a young child and I'm losing my husband through divorce right now. (by no means am I comparing death and divorce) I am going through a different kind of mourning right now, but waiting to see what God brings from it.

This blog will be such an encouragement to so many. I will send some friends your way.

-Sheryl

Anonymous said...

Thank God you have started this site. It's not quite eleven weeks since I lost my husband in a tragic boating accident. We were only married ten weeks. I have huge trust issues with God and it's relieving to know there's a blog for all of "us". I got here by Lysa.